THE MOVIE, SISTA.
I finally got to complete this movie,SISTA and I broke down when she said, “I leave school so he can further.”
Now, I know it’s normal to make sacrifices for those you love but please, while doing that, also think of yourself.
Love your neighbor as yourself is such a valid scripture.
She had already been pushed out from her home the same way,Fola was. So,why didn’t she also think of herself?
I will tell you why.
📌Some women think they aren’t deserving of anything good. It shows in the kind of ‘sacrifices’ they make.
They leave school so that their partners can complete his schooling.
They use the money given to them by their parents for their school fees to train someone else.
They feel the good things of life aren’t for them, so they constantly push their partner while they stay in the background.
Even up to the meals they cook. Some serve everyone with big chunks of meat while they eat nothing or hurriedly have the left over from the pot.
📌Some women also feel loving excessively will make a man stay.
News flash, if he isn’t yet ready to commit or see you as not worth committing to, your excess love will be very irritating to him.
Don’t tell me it was just about his age because he left her and his son, including the daughter in his womb and met someone else immediately he got to NYSC camp.
📌Women MUST as a matter of urgency begin to prioritize themselves as well. Did you see how easy it was for Fola to move on?
He sat down and prioritized himself and immediately knew that staying back with his Babies Mama was going to serve as a stumbling block to him and so, he took the decision that favours him and his future.
No time for unnecessary sentiments and we see it play out in real life.
A man doesn’t care how many children a lady has for him, he can comfortably leave and not look back.
📌Love shouldn’t make you suspend your brain.
The money she used to train him would have also been enough to train herself but this notion that the woman always has to just act based on her feeling and not the use of her brain and accurate thinking isn’t right.
I haven’t said you shouldn’t sacrifice for love but also think of yourself as you do so.
In fact,love yourself as well.
Overall, it was a beautiful movie and I enjoyed watching it.
Once again lady, you are also worthy of the beautiful life you dream of. 💚
Or is it that your head rejects good things? 😆
