Nigerian rap icon M.I Abaga has shared a powerful message on the dangers of living to impress society, stressing that many people go broke because they allow public perception to dictate their lifestyle.
In a recent statement, the award-winning rapper said he learned early that people enjoy mocking others for not appearing wealthy, and he refused to let that mindset control him. He urged the public to stop giving power to such behaviour.
“When I realized that people love to broke-shame others, I had to decide whether I wanted to give that kind of thing power over me.
Because if you don’t confront it, it will run your entire life.”
M.I explained that fear of judgment makes many individuals constantly adjust their lifestyle to avoid criticism, a trap that eventually leads to financial struggle.
“If you’re not comfortable with the idea that someone might see you driving a certain car and mock you… and a hundred others might join in…
then you’ll keep adjusting your entire lifestyle to avoid that shame.”
He added that pretending to be wealthy for social validation is unnecessary because most people do not have the money they claim to have. The rapper emphasized that he remains unbothered by online comments or viral mockery.
“And that right there — is how you go broke: trying to meet other people’s expectations.”
M.I reminded Nigerians that fame, money, and status all operate in seasons. He noted that even top celebrities experience rises and falls, and none of it should be taken personally.
He concluded by encouraging the public to embrace authenticity, understanding that “levels change, seasons come and go – same with money and fame.”
